Gun-threat ex says: ‘if I don’t go... I’ll leave in a body bag’
The father of my three young children has threatened me with his guns and knives and has told me if I do not pack my bags and leave the house, I will be leaving in a body bag.
Our relationship has now broken down and we have separated, but we are having to live in the same house together as the tenancy is held in joint names.
I don’t have anywhere else to live with my children, I am unable to work, and I provide the majority of care to our young children. I am now scared for my safety.
I know my ex-partner has family members he could live with and savings he could use to get another property. I want my ex-partner to leave but I do not know what to do.
First and foremost, you should immediately inform the police of the threats your expartner has made towards you.
It is important that you tell the police as police reports can be used as evidence in court proceedings.
You are legally entitled to not be harassed, pestered, or threatened by your ex-partner.
Given that there appears to be an immediate threat to your safety, an emergency application to the court for a Non-Molestation Order can be considered.
This would prevent your ex-partner from intimidating, harassing, or pestering you and would prohibit him from entering or attempting to enter your home.
In relation to the property, you co-habit with your expartner, you may wish to apply to the court for an Occupation Order at the same time as applying for a Non-Molestation Order.
An Occupation Order restricts someone’s right to reside in the property and would suspend your ex-partner’s right to reside in the property which would allow you to return home.
When making such an application, the court must consider the “balance of harm” test and will consider which of the parties, including the children, would be most placed at risk of harm if they were not to reside in the family home.
The court will take into account a number of factors such as housing needs and resources, the financial resources of the parties and the effect of not living in the property on the health, safety or wellbeing of the parties or children.