Sunderland Echo

Top tips for planning the perfect LGBT+ wedding

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A decade ago, on March

29, 2014, the first same sex marriages in England and Wales took place.

Tens of thousands of LGBTQ+ couples have since tied the knot, with many more planning their big days.

Are you and your partner one of them? We asked an LGBTQ+ wedding expert for their top tips for planning the day of your dreams.

"Planning a wedding is an exciting journey, and for LGBTQ+ couples it's an opportunit­y to celebrate love, authentici­ty, and unity," says Elaine Cripps, managing director or LGBTQ-focused wedding directory, Pink Wedding Venues.

One of the (many) wonderful things about LGBTQ+ weddings is that there's less pressure to follow traditions that don't really fit. As Cripps says: "From the venue to the vows, every aspect of the wedding should reflect their personalit­ies and love story. Starting with authentici­ty sets the tone for a celebratio­n that is truly theirs."

Cripps suggests couples "prioritise their spending based on what matters most to them. Being financiall­y savvy allows couples to enjoy their wedding day without unnecessar­y stress or debt," she adds.

Before getting stuck into the next steps, Cripps suggests starting with your guest list, as this may help you set your priorities.

"This ensures couples choose a venue that can accommodat­e their desired number of guests comfortabl­y," she says.

"Try not to feel guilty about culling a few guests off the list if necessary."

Another big thing is how LGBTQ+ friendly the venue is. If they haven't included inclusive imagery and language on their website, are they going to give you the warm welcome you deserve?

Websites like Pink Wedding Venues and The Gay Wedding Guide are a helpful starting point.

Last but not least,

Cripps adds: "Above all else, remember the purpose of your wedding day - to celebrate your love and commitment to each other surrounded by loved ones."

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