The Daily Telegraph

Rent-a-parent makes true love run smooth

- By Neil Connor in Beijing

CHINA is well known as the home of “rented boyfriends” and “rented bridesmaid­s”, but now “rented parents” are offering their services for when you just cannot allow teachers – or lovers – to meet the real ones.

Offering stand-in help for anything from a tricky school parents’ evening to that awkward first meeting between the new girlfriend and mum and dad, fake parents believe they can ward off potential social catastroph­es – momentaril­y at least.

“Do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend who wants to meet your parents but you actually don’t want them to meet?” asks one advert from a fake parent on the Chinese internet. The Global Times newspaper, which said the service is usually charged at 50 yuan (£5.60) an hour – spoke to a stand-in parent who takes his “profession” seriously.

“I study psychology,” the fake father told the newspaper. “No matter how nasty your teacher gets, I won’t get angry.” Young Chinese who are seeking fake parents are also posting on the web. “A rented parent is needed,” said one comment. “Just need to make a phone call to my teacher.”

Another asked: “Is there anyone in Shanghai who can be rented as parents to have a meal with my girlfriend?”

China is experienci­ng massive social changes, but most people are still deeply conservati­ve. Many marriages are arranged and parents are often involved in their children’s relationsh­ips from an early stage.

It is unclear how many of the postings relating to “rented parents” are genuine, but China has a booming trade in renting people for a range of personal services.

Boyfriends and girlfriend­s are hired over the New Year holiday by singletons who want to put a stop to intrusive questions from parents. Bridesmaid­s are also for hire in China, and national media reported this week the growing trend of people using “rent me” apps to offer themselves as friends.

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