The Daily Telegraph

Don’t give up

- Linda Blair is a clinical psychologi­st

Even though restrictio­ns are easing, there’s still a long road ahead. With patience stretched, it’s easy to write off the past few months.

Please don’t.

However agonising, you’ve gained knowledge – not least that you’re able to cope with sudden catastroph­ic change more effectivel­y than you’d ever imagined.

Make two lists. First, write down all the things you can do now, or do better, than you could six months ago.

You probably have more online skills. You may have learnt to grow your own produce, and cook decent meals despite a restricted list of ingredient­s. If you’re a parent, you know new ways to entertain and educate your children.

Second, make a note of friends you’re in touch with again, relationsh­ips that may have lapsed but are now revived.

Keep these lists handy, so you can reread them when the going feels tough.

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