Summer Weddings
WITH a gorgeous natural backdrop and a plethora of fairytale venues, the West Highlands is a renowned wedding destination, for local couples and for those coming from the furthest corners of the world.
A wedding may be the biggest party a couple will ever organise, so nothing should be left to chance. The Oban
Times’ Summer Wedding guide will help the bride and groom plan their perfect day. And a few tips will help make the process even smoother.
Compromise is an essential part of the wedding planning. This may be the biggest day of a bride’s life, but the groom can be involved as well. He may not be interested in the colours, the cake or the bridesmaids’ dresses, and, in fact, he may not even care about the details – all he is thinking about is how happy his blushing bride will make him. But by asking him to make some important decisions, such as setting a budget, choosing groomsmen’s outfits, sourcing rings and organising the honeymoon, the bride won’t feel like she is doing everything – and he gets to put in his two pence-worth. Our advertisers can help make decisions as well, taking some of the strain off the couple. With that in mind, here is The
Oban Times’ three-point plan to help organise the big day with a minimum of stress.
1. Set a realistic budget. Weddings can be expensive, so make a priority list and be ready to compromise. Our advertisers can help with this. And remember, years from now, everyone will remember the love and the fun, not whether they ate the most costly cake or drank the finest champagne.
2. Decide on a date. Speak to the celebrant first, whether it is a minister or a member of the council office, and get the date penned in before you make any plans. Then the venue can be booked and invitations printed.
3. Make a plan. By keeping a to-do list and planning well ahead, the busy bride can stay organised and keep on top of tasks. Keep records of everything, from discussions with the venue manager and caterer to fabric swatches.