The Press and Journal (Inverness, Highlands, and Islands)
How long does it take to recover from a stroke?
HUSBAND WON’T SEE GP AFTER STROKE
About two months ago, my husband had a stroke. It was very frightening because it happened at night and we had to wait ages for an ambulance.
A&E was very busy and we still had to wait to see a doctor. He got clotbusting drugs quickly, and thankfully it turned out to be not too serious.
After a sleepless night, the hospital discharged him the following day with instructions to get in touch with his GP.
I feel this was far too soon, as my husband is not right. His memory is all over the place, and I don’t know how he is managing to work.
He repeats himself a lot and then gets angry when I point out that he’s already said something. He often leaves the house without his bag or keys.
More worryingly, I sometimes find him just standing around the house. It’s as though he’s forgotten where he was going. When
I ask what he’s doing, he says “nothing” and carries on as though everything was normal.
When I suggest that he should contact his GP, he says he’s fine. Shouldn’t he be getting better by now? ■ PM
FIONA SAYS: GENTLE ENCOURAGEMENT MIGHT HELP
Most people will recover from a mild stroke in about three to six months, with most improvement happening in the first three months.
For some though, the recovery process can last much longer. Many will fully regain lost functions, others will carry some degree of disability for the rest of their life.
Your husband’s stroke was relatively recent and is therefore still very much in the recovery phase, so it’s important that you don’t expect too much too quickly.
That said, it’s possible that he’s aware there is an ongoing problem and doesn’t want to acknowledge it.
Has he had any contact with his GP since leaving the hospital? If not, please continue to encourage him to go.
Rather than say that something is clearly wrong – which may make him anxious – suggest that it’s time for a routine check-up. If he still won’t go then I think you should speak to his GP. However, there’s a limit to what the doctor may be able to discuss with you about your husband. Nonetheless, explain your concerns and I am sure the GP will try to help. If possible, I’d suggest you accompany him to his appointment, as two sets of ears are always better than one in this situation.
You might find it helpful to contact the Stroke Association (stroke.org.uk or tel 0303 3033 100) for support.