The Scottish Mail on Sunday

How grief brings us together

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GRIEF is usually a solitary, even lonely, experience. But it is one that touches us all.

Few of us could say they knew the Queen in any way. But many people I know, and many who are commenting on social media, have expressed surprise at the depth of sadness they’ve felt these past few days. And it’s not all that surprising.

The death of such a loved figure reminds us of those we have lost – or fear losing. And, on these occasions, grief becomes something we can share.

Colleagues have also spoken of what ‘a good death’ it appears the Queen had. It is so important, at the end of life, to be where we want to be. Knowing everything was done to make this possible also helps families come to terms with their loss.

If you are struggling with grief, GPs are able to give referrals for bereavemen­t counsellin­g.

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