The Sunday Post (Dundee)

Sister is happy with time spent

- Dear June June says VERDICT

JUST over two weeks ago marked a year since my sister’s death.

I didn’t go to see her before she died as she only wanted her husband and children.

I feel bad and cowardly for not going to visit her and hold her one more time.

Can you tell me if she was met by our mother? Moira, Moniaive.

Nearly all of us think back after the loss of someone close and wish we had done things differentl­y.

We forget we are now thinking with rational minds outwith the emotional turmoil that surrounded us at the time of illness and, finally, death.

Nothing can be changed or altered now, so it is always best to accept you did the best you could under the most emotional and heartbreak­ing of circumstan­ces.

You also carried out her wishes in that she only wanted her husband and son with her and, although it was hard for you to stay away, you did what you thought was better for her through unselfish love.

I sense a strong character with your sister and a real bond with her family.

She makes me feel she had been up and down with illness over a period of time and that she is quite settled in mind with the time you spent together and does not feel the need for closure.

I can see three ladies standing in a group with two gentlemen behind them.

They feel like a family that has been reunited.

Your mum and sister are indeed part of that group and the love that surrounds them is most definitely that of family.

Dear June

I’VE had a turbulent time in the last two years after a tragic loss and all that followed.

This has affected not only me but all of my family. Can you tell me who is there in spirit and if they are watching over us all? Do they see the devastatio­n around us and also what’s ahead? It would be so comforting for us all to hear there is a light at the end of what seems a very long tunnel.

Any informatio­n would be a great comfort to us all.

June says

It feels like the last few years have been a series of emotional highs and lows.

I have a very strong character of an older lady with me who seems to be clearing a pathway towards a much more positive life for you.

I feel she is your grandmothe­r and she brings forward a small female child who passed to spirit. I sense there was an ongoing illness from the onset.

She is never far from you and the pain of her loss continues.

This wee soul shows me a white angel headstone.

I feel you refer to her as “my little angel”.

I see a white hat around her head and feel it was too big.

She holds out a small teddy that was placed in the coffin.

You carry her picture and a picture of the gravestone on your phone.

I am very drawn to your stomach area, where I can see you are receiving healing but also like it’s being nurtured. Are you pregnant?

I sense a male energy from the spirit side awaiting birth.

September is a huge turning point for you and I feel everything is changing.

There are many boxes packed, as if there is a house move.

I feel unsettled with you at present with worries other than moving boxes!

When I see a birth certificat­e laid out it means either a change of

Anon, Nairn. name or a mistake or what you are called not being on the certificat­e. Which would be significan­t? You have a close, caring family that’s supported you through turbulent times and will continue to do so for as long as you need it.

Don’t look back at the past because it cannot be changed and will not re-occur.

Look to the future positively as you’ve nothing to fear.

The September change marks a turning point that shows me nothing but positivity ahead.

Relax, go with it and enjoy it.

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