Cat loss was further blow

Dear June

I’M 72 and lost my husband nine years ago.

I have always been strong and was relied upon by many over the years.

I recently lost my wee cat, who had been with me for 17 years.

It sounds silly but I feel I am now grieving for my husband all over again.

Janette, Cumbernauld.

June Says

Losing an animal friend who was close to you both can leave you feeling very alone.

Your wee cat was the link that connected you with your husband, as you both loved him and missed him after he passed.

You would have become much closer to your cat, who would have become the loving companion you needed to see you through the lonely nights.

To you, he was not just your cat but a companion, friend and lifeline for a time.

For many, the loss of a close family animal, especially for those who live alone, can take away their reason to get up in the morning.

You relied upon each other for companionship and love.

Your home will feel very empty without him and the emotions you are experiencing have brought your feelings of grief and loss to the forefront, but they’ll settle again in time.

In my mind’s eye, I can see a ginger cat with a tall, balding gentleman.

It is now his turn to look after your loyal friend for a while.

Your wee pal’s physical body wore out through age but his love and loyalty towards you will last for ever.