Your wife will send a sign

Dear June

I recently lost my wife and, although she was ill, her passing was very sudden.

She had what she called the “gift” and was able to give spiritual readings.

She always said if she went before me she would give me a sign to let me know she was OK.

I don’t think I’ve had one yet. Jim, Dundee

June Says

After the loss of a life partner, we need some time to adapt and adjust emotionally to life without them.

During the initial stages of grief, we’re emotionally raw and unable to think clearly.

After a relatively short period (which can vary from person to person) we begin to settle and slowly accept the life changes that lie ahead of us without our partners.

This is when our journey towards healing through our grief really begins.

Most have friends and family who will gather round them during the early stages of their loss to offer love and support.

Those who pass will also have a settling period. They will also receive love and support from others on the spirit side who hold a connection with them (family/friends).

It is more usual to receive signs from them when things have settled down and the initial shock of loss is less raw.

In a more relaxed state of mind, you will begin to receive subtle signs from the spirit side to let you know they are there.

Given time, I am sure your wife will do her best to give you the sign you have been waiting for.

Dear June

It’s now been a year since our daughter passed away.

She suffered abuse when she was 12, which she never got over, but it was years before my wife and I found out about it.

She was a heavy drinker and a drug addict.

Her two children are being brought up by my wife and I.

We’re not sure if she committed suicide or if was it her lifestyle that killed her. Can you tell us if she is finally at peace with herself?

Robert, email

June Says

It is totally devastating and life changing to lose a child.

There are many individuals who, having gone through emotional traumas in their lives, turn to alcohol and drugs in a bid to cope with the aftermath.

I feel your daughter’s lifestyle and constant use of alcohol and drugs inevitably led to her death. I do not get the impression the cause of her passing was suicide.

She is now at peace with herself and will be constantly close by to watch over you. One day, you’ll see her again.