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Dear June This Christmas it will be two years since my dad passed away. He’d been ill for a while and wasn’t able to look after himself so, after much persuasion, he reluctantly went into a home. I feel so guilty about this as his health rapidly went downhill but he never complained. I knew he wasn’t happy as he missed my mum – who passed four years earlier – but I hoped things would change and his health would return. Does he forgive me and is he with Mum? Jen, Newcastle

June Says

Guilt is a natural part of grief.

When we lose someone we love, we initially look to what we did in life that we feel they weren’t happy about and feel guilt over them, irrespective of whether or not these instances happened years ago.

We all have many happy memories to look at so try to replace a negative memory with a positive one.

I am firstly aware of a lady coming forward from spirit who I sense to be your mum.

She was the family matriarch and one of life’s natural-born organisers. She could be described as a little bossy or matron-like but in the nicest possible way, as she liked things done her way.

Was there slight disharmony or a clash of personalities between you and your mum? I feel you were very similar in nature.

I sense your dad was very happy to fit in around her organisational skills, as that’s the way they’d always lived.

He was not a man to complain and had a quiet, reserved nature that would be described as easy-going.

When your mum passed, I sense he felt lost and looked to you for support and direction but as his health deteriorated, it was unsafe for him to live at home.

I am impressed to say he could not manage stairs. Were there stairs in his or your home as I feel it’s of some importance?

I am now also aware of your dad as he stands close to your mum. I am shown a castle on a hill and feel it would be a family memory. Did they like to visit castles?

His health deteriorated through ongoing circulation problems and not because he was placed in care.

They are happy to be reunited. They can now work together again as a team to watch over you. VERDICT My mum was very much the head of our family and there were times when we did not see eye to eye. Many people we know have said it was because we were both similar in nature. I was more of a dad’s girl and that’s why I felt I’d let him down when he went into care. We all used to travel up north and visit castles when we were younger. My dad, being Scottish, had an interest in Scotland’s history. Dad did have circulation issues and that was one of the reasons he went into care, as he became very unsteady and could no longer manage the stairs.