A QUESTION OF CHRISTMAS ETIQUETTE LUCY HUME

ADraw it up in advance, focusing on maximum enjoyment and minimum friction. Impose yourself in potential trouble spots to act as peacemaker (or strategically place the known diplomats). speech and that game of charades. Ask another guest to keep your father-in-law occupied, with his glass charged at all times.

AChic not corny is the order of the day here so steer clear of any Bridget Jones jumpers. I’d go for a black or navy velvet trouser suit with oversized diamanté earrings (Mango has good options) or a sequin polo