The Sunday Telegraph

My corona birth day: an eerie calm, brisk efficiency and face masks

- By Charlotte Kelly

The hospital at which the Prime Minister’s new son was born promises “the very best care for women and their babies” and “state-of-the-art facilities”.

Almost 6,800 babies are delivered each year at University College London Hospital – one of only two in the capital to receive accreditat­ion in Unicef ’s prestigiou­s Baby Friendly Award, recognisin­g its work in supporting and enabling breastfeed­ing.

It also has a “level 3” neonatal intensive care unit, which provides specialist care for the sickest and most premature babies.

Although it offers a private maternity care package for those who can afford it, No10 said the baby was born in an NHS hospital, and specifical­ly not a private wing.

‘You can’t see my face, but I’m smiling.” That’s what my midwife told me after delivering my baby at University College London Hospital last month; at the height of a pandemic, decked out in PPE, this is the way mothers and those who bring their newborns into the world must now communicat­e.

It’s not how you imagine those first moments, but just as Carrie Symonds said, the maternity ward staff were incredible – a calming presence at a time that often felt like anything but.

Coronaviru­s had begun to affect my pregnancy in the months leading up to Clara’s birth – several appointmen­ts had been moved, and others were by phone. But on the day, the strange situation we’ve found ourselves in almost worked out for the better. I had been having contractio­ns since the morning, but on the advice of hospital staff via phone, they told me to hang on as long as I could before coming in.

That meant that when I arrived at the hospital that night – a 15-minute taxi ride through the traffic-free city – we were ushered straight in, taken for an assessment and then to a labour room, where I must have given birth around 15 minutes later. The place was quiet – at odds with what you’d expect.

Before I went into labour, I was worried by stories of dads sitting in car parks while their partners pushed, missing those first moments of their newborns’ lives. I was relieved that turned out not to be true for us – the midwives made clear that birthing partners could be present in active labour, but wouldn’t be able to stay over or visit like normal. We stayed together for a few hours, the three of us, before my husband Chris went home to our two-year-old that night.

The postnatal ward was a much calmer experience than the first time around when it felt like a revolving door of other people’s visitors. The other big difference was the focus on being discharged as quickly as possible: the midwives were meticulous, but wanted to get you home as quickly and safely as they could. After my first birth, it felt a bit like you had to push for them to complete the discharge paperwork.

Prior to Clara’s birth, I had worried about the knock-on effect of coronaviru­s to maternity services. But the dedication of the midwives and their empathy made mums like me, and I’m sure Carrie, feel as though we were in the best possible hands.

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