Ask yourself why you want them to be there

Woman agony aunt Suzie Hayman offers some advice Consult your partner: decide where you and your partner stand on exes at the wedding before you suggest any names. if inviting a certain someone makes them feel uncomfortable, don’t do it. Keep it friendly: The main reason not to invite an ex is if you’re still playing out any conflict that caused you to split. if it was a sound relationship, your ex will be someone you still like and value. avoid drama: Be sure no-one else is going to gossip, stir or tell tales. This day is all about your spouseto-be and you, not anyone else.