Susan says

aas stocking presents, buy each other one or two of Tracey Cox’s sex guides, such as Supersex or

Quickies. Then on Christmas morning, have breakfast in bed, go through the books and each mark your five favourite activities. Swap notes and decide on your three top. That’ll make one sex session before lunch, one late afternoon, one in the evening – your husband may want to save his orgasm for that final round. Plus, your main presents to each other might be sex toys – annsummers.com has lots plus a beginners’ guide.