My new man is so inexperienced!

QI’ve just started seeing a man who’s much younger than me and hasn’t had much sexual experience. He loves women and is turned on by them, has had some short-term relationships, but has never had full intercourse. So

I am worried about whether being with him is a good idea. Will I be happy with someone who doesn’t know much about sex? Will he be happy with someone who knows so much about it?

SUSAN SAYS

AHold on. You’ve only just started seeing this man, yet you’re immediately imagining bad news. But what if there’s good news? What if your experience means you can teach this man how to make love wonderfully? What if his lack of experience means he’s eager to learn? Yes, if three months down the line things aren’t working, end the relationship gently and kindly. But for the moment, grab this opportunity and enjoy.