Help! I want spicy sex

Q

It’s my birthday soon, and my lovely man has offered to give me a whole evening of one-way sex as part of my present. Whoopee! But there’s a problem. I’m totally clear on how I want it all to end – oral sex, then intercourse, with lots of orgasms. But I also want some very different foreplay to start the evening – and I can’t think of anything we haven’t done before. What’s your best suggestion for something a bit different and spicy?

SUSAN SAYS

A

My best suggestion is for your man to give you a ‘tongue bath’. You lie still – or, if you’re into it, he pins you down. Then he goes over every single square inch of your body with long, slow tongue strokes. He may need to keep a glass of water handy to moisten his mouth or he can cover you with flavoured lube and lick that off. He’ll love tonguing. You’ll have a birthday to remember!