Help! He has a foot fetish

QMy partner is totally obsessed with my feet – he just loves kissing and licking my toes and insteps. Problem is, my feet are hugely sensitive and what started as fun is now feeling quite icky. The relationship’s otherwise great, so I don’t want to say no just for the sake of it. So am I weird in not liking foot play? Or is he the weird one here? I don’t know what to do for the best!

SUSAN SAYS

AYou’re not weird here – and if foot play feels icky for you, you should say no. But your man’s not weird, either. 2018 study suggests foot play is really common, and there are lots of great things you can do such as sucking, licking, tickling and using a vibrator. The answer? Only actually do together what pleases you both. But be relaxed if your man wants to fantasise about all this in his own time.