Help! He’s a f lop in bed at Christmas

QThe only thing I don’t like about the festive holidays is that, for some reason, my husband can never get it up. We tumble into bed on Christmas night after a long stressful visit from our families, and what I’m wanting is a loving cuddle and some energetic bonking. But then my man just isn’t into it. We love each other loads. So why can’t he celebrate the festive season by making love to me?

SUSAN SAYS

AI suspect your man can’t make love to you precisely because he’s celebrated the festive season! Rich, fatty food can make him feel sleepy. Alcohol can affect his erection. Too much socialising can mean he wants peace and quiet rather than energetic sex. And though Christmas is meant to be a happy time, family stresses can kill his lust. To avoid disappointment this year,

I’d start early and aim for morning sex on Christmas Day!