How can I help her see she’s wrong?
My best friend is about to marry a horrible man. They have been together for 18 months and I feel she’s rushing things and will regret it. I did try to say this at her hen do but she got really angry with me. How can I get her to see she’s making the wrong decision? Michelle, 41, Leeds
Sometimes, no matter what you say and do, you can’t stop someone who is determined to go down a certain path. If you’ve reached hen party stage, then she’s pretty far down that path and all you can do now is be there for her in case you’re right and things do go wrong.