Sex isn’t work­ing

Woman's Own - - GOOD ADVICE -

QEar­lier this year I met a won­der­ful man. I haven’t been with any­one since I was di­vorced four years ago and he has also been sin­gle for a while. He’s very lov­ing but sex isn’t work­ing for us. It’s awk­ward and some­times em­bar­rass­ing (I’m not sure why) and the more we try the worst it seems to get. I am too scared to talk to him about it. Ali, 43, Bris­tol

ASo much of good sex comes from com­mu­ni­ca­tion and be­ing open about your de­sires and feel­ings. If you feel too scared to bring up then it means that you are just jump­ing in and hop­ing for the best. Don’t be afraid to slow things down and talk about it. Try not to fo­cus on what’s go­ing wrong, in­stead talk about what you like, what he likes, and work on those parts to im­prove things.

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