Which man should I choose?

Woman's Own - - GOOD ADVICE -

I’ve been sep­a­rated from Q

my part­ner for the last six months and, while part of me keeps hop­ing we will get back to­gether (we of­ten sleep to­gether), I know deep down that he doesn’t want me. For this rea­son, I started dat­ing again and have met a nice man. He’s lovely and we have a lot of things in com­mon, but some­thing keeps stop­ping me from get­ting into a se­ri­ous re­la­tion­ship with him. I feel messed up be­cause on the one hand, I have an ex that broke up with me and, on the other, a nice man who cares – and I can’t choose. Ali, 38, Hants

37% of peo­ple feel sex ends too quickly

A The trou­ble with dat­ing again is you can’t do it half-heart­edly. Ei­ther you’re ready to meet some­one new, or you’re not ready and shouldn’t do it. If you’re still sleep­ing with your ex and hop­ing you’ll get back to­gether, then the an­swer is you’re not ready. Aside from the fact you’re not be­ing hon­est with this new man, you’re not be­ing hon­est with your­self. You need to step back from both men and have time alone to re­ally think about what you want and why.

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