We don’t have sex
Q My husband and I are in our late 40s and haven’t had sex for around three years. It’s something we don’t talk about and I can’t remember why we stopped. We are affectionate together, but is this normal? Nat, 48, Leics A There are all kinds of normal in relationships, but the real question is, does not having sex bother you? And, if so, what will you do about it? Perhaps your husband has a low libido or maybe you’ve just got out of the habit of being sexual with each other. Whatever the reason is, you’re both young, so it’s worth exploring now until another three years pass without any sexual contact between you.