He’s kind but I no longer love him
Q I have been with a lovely man for two years. After my divorce, he helped me realise that life could be good again. The problem is I no longer love him. He’s nice and kind but I am not attracted to him and sex is not good between us. I am attracted to another man at work, who’s also keen on me, but can’t bring myself to leave my partner after all he’s done for me. Name and address withheld, 40 A Falling out of love with someone is painful, especially when they’ve been nothing but kind to you. However, staying just because you feel too bad to leave isn’t fair. Your partner deserves someone who loves him fully and sees a future with him. Be honest about your feelings – the longer you leave it, the harder it will be for both of you.