Can we change our sex life?
Q My partner and I have been together for 12 years and have two kids aged 7 and 9. When we first met our sex life was so good, but like many couples over the years it’s become just one of those things we feel we have to do. A few weeks back my partner said our sex life was dull and I agreed. The thing is I’m wondering if it’s possible to change things after all these years? Elaine, 44, by email A Yes, you can if both of you are willing to talk about it, be honest with each other and work on it together. Like all things that fall into a rut, it’s time and dedication that will pull you out. The fact both of you are keen to make it hot again bodes well. Now all you have to do is start talking about how you’re going to do it.