Signs you need to be a little more selfish
If you tick four or more of the following, it may be time to start putting yourself first.
✣ You feel guilty when asked to express your needs
✣ You worry that when you disagree with someone their feelings will be hurt
✣ You’d rather everyone else is happy, even at the expense of your own happiness
✣ You find it hard to express anger, preferring to stay silent
✣ If someone hurts your feelings, you will say nothing and try to forget about it
✣ You are always the peacemaker in your family
✣ You often feel resentful but can’t express it
✣ You’re often described as being ‘too nice’
✣ People always see you as the strong, reliable one
✣ Friends and family look to you to make them happier