A PROBLEM SHARED

Mum-of-two Anita Naik has been an agony aunt for 30 years

SHOULD I LEAVE HIM?

Q It’s just become clear that my husband has had an affair. I am devastated and feel pulled in so many directions. My friends and family say kick him out; my son says forgive him. I am so confused and don’t know what to do.

A An affair has got to be one of the hardest challenges a marriage can face, but it doesn’t always mean it’s the end. As you work through the aftermath and talk, it will become clearer what you want and what to do moving forwards. Take your time, and don’t be rushed by well-meaning family and friends.