How do I tell my partner of a year I feel a bit ‘meh’ about their signature move in bed?
Twelve months?! This topic is going straight to the top of your ‘we need to talk’ list because, while your consideration of their feelings is admirable (truly), if this relationship is going to have a future, lying back and thinking of England ain’t an option. Steer things in a more pleasurable direction without any egos being dented; next time they’re about to do The Thing, gently guide their hands/hips/riding crop – hey, whatever gets you going – into a position you feel more excited about. If, on the other hand, you’re one of the more sexually articulate among us – and mazel tov – tell them what they could be doing that you’d enjoy even
more. If all else fails, take some, ahem, alone time to figure out what it is that you really want, and then next time things are getting erotically charged, make sure you take control and show them how it’s done.