If you have one of those reluctant cats, but have always wanted a cuddly lap cat, there is something you could try:

STEP 1

Take some of your cat’s favourite treats into your lounge and sit down on the sofa.While keeping your eyes fixed firmly on the TV and resisting the temptation to look at or speak to your cat, gently toss them, one at a time, on to the floor in front of you. If he doesn’t come over at this stage, just toss the treat a little further towards your cat (this will work better with a hungry cat!).

STEP 2

When your cat responds positively, place a treat on to your sofa, so that they have got to get on to the sofa beside you.

STEP 3

Eventually, lure your kitty on to your lap with a treat. It is very important to remember at this stage that you do not try to hold/pet your cat — you need him to feel as though he has full control.

STEP 4

Remember, you will need heaps of patience as this could take quite a considerable amount of time — but don’t give up. The above exercises should be repeated daily and, hopefully, over a period of time your cat will feel safe and secure enough to curl up and rest on your lap.