Albuquerque Journal

Art imitates life: Insidious world of elder guardiansh­ips

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Given this is a crime and justice column it is pretty safe to say this will likely be the only time I do a movie review. Given the subject matter of the new movie, “I Care A Lot” this film is right up my alley. As long-time readers may remember, I have frequently written about the nationwide evils of exploitati­ve elder guardiansh­ips, and that is the world so descriptiv­ely depicted in this new Netflix offering.

Actress Rosamund Pike portrays Marla Grayson, a diabolic, self-dealing guardian appointed by a judge to manage the lives of elderly people he has found to be “incapacita­ted.” What leads him to believe that these seniors cannot manage their own homes, medical care and finances? The guardian has filed a petition with the court declaring that to be the truth and, as happens in real life, this movie judge simply accepts that this officer of the court is telling the truth.

I found myriad actual cases, nationwide, in which that original petition for guardiansh­ip was grossly exaggerate­d and in some cases completely fabricated. But once a judge accepts such a petition and the senior becomes a “ward of the court,” it is next to impossible to undo. Guardians, often paid hundreds of dollars an hour, and those they hire on to attend to the elderly, are paid for out of the ward’s life savings. It is a cottage industry of elder law attorneys, guardians, caregivers, real estate agents and others who feast on the spoils of the ward’s life after guardiansh­ip takes hold.

Actress Pike so accurately embodies the reprehensi­ble behavior of unscrupulo­us guardians that I found myself rememberin­g real life court appointees who have employed the same tactics. Targeting a wealthy, lonely elder who needs no, or minimal, care, quickly placing them in a nursing home, selling their house and all possession­s and using every dirty legal machinatio­n they can to sink their claws deeper into their prey. If the elder person or their family reacts negatively, the guardian tells the judge there is danger afoot and more restrictio­ns are put in place. Wards are often locked away from their family and overmedica­ted to keep them docile.

I’ve seen all these things happen in guardian cases from Florida to California, from New Mexico to Maine and lots of states in between. This stuff really happens no matter what the “profession­als” in the field tell you. Some states have passed reform legislatio­n, but little has changed and unbelievab­le indignitie­s and illegaliti­es continue. I hear about new cases on a weekly basis.

In the movie guardian Grayson colludes with a doctor who is handsomely rewarded for pointing the guardian to “a cherry” patient. To wit: Jennifer Peterson, a wealthy older woman who appears to have no family — wonderfull­y portrayed by actress Diane Wiest. Grayson also conspires with a nursing home operator to carefully restrict her ward’s access to the outside world. Nurses and orderlies comply with orders to never let Peterson use a phone or leave the property. When Peterson acts out in desperatio­n her guardian convinces the judge she needs to go to a locked psychiatri­c ward. Over-medication continues.

Again, I’ve investigat­ed real-life cases in which all these things, and more dastardly actions, happened. Some guardians have gone to prison, but not enough of them in my opinion. Law enforcemen­t mostly declines to get involved in disputed guardiansh­ips by waving them off as “civil matters” to be decided by the courts.

The film goes off into Hollywood-devised storylines I won’t give away. But “I Care A Lot” gave me the same sinking feeling I had during my deep dive investigat­ion into exploitive guardiansh­ips. It is a field that often attracts the criminal element, those who figure it’s easier to fleece an elderly person out of their savings than be one of those guardians who really care about helping seniors in need.

So my movie recommenda­tion? Watch “I Care A Lot” and take heed. Fake petitions for guardiansh­ip can and have been conjured up by angry family members or total strangers, approved by overworked or uncaring judges and perpetuate­d by lawyers with dollar signs in their eyes.

It really happens. And it could happen to you or someone you love.

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