The first time I saw my future spouse:

She says: “I think it was love at first sight. I knew there was something about him.”

He says: “She was cute. She was nice-looking. I got the vibe she wasn’t into me.”

On our wedding day:

She says: “It was like my dream come true. I was so excited it was happening, that I got my man and we could do life.”

He says: “I was tired from all the things that happened the night before.”

My advice for a long happy marriage:

She says: “You cannot be selfish. You have to put the other person first, and it has to be built on wanting to make it work and loving that person.”

He says: “You’ve got to really love the person because it’s hard to get through life doing it with somebody else. It’s a lot of ups and downs. You have to have patience and be flexible.”