Arkansas Democrat-Gazette

When should children trick-or-treat without an adult?

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Kids go through many rites of passage throughout childhood. There is the first time they go to school and leave their parents behind for several hours per day. Another rite is sleeping over at a friend or family member’s house or even summer camp. Still another may be being allowed to attend a movie alone with a friend. Small rites of passage signify that a child is getting older and is ready for more responsibi­lity and trust. Such may be the case when parents conclude that their children are ready to engage in Halloween fun without an adult chaperone.

There is no set age when a child can walk around the neighborho­od trick-or-treating unattended. Just as with other tests of responsibi­lity, such as staying home alone or riding bikes with friends, it is up to parents to gauge their youngsters’ readiness. Halloween for older children is often less about candy and more about hanging out with their friends. Therefore, parents probably do not need to worry that their kids will be traveling solo, since a large group of children will likely be visiting homes together. Many parents find that anywhere between ages 11 and 13 are good times to let their children go trick-or-treating with friends. However, this decision may be based on several factors.

• Time of day: It is best to limit a first-time trick-ortreating without parents to daylight hours. What looks familiar during the day may be less familiar after sunset. It is generally safer for kids to be out and about before night falls.

• Other participan­ts: Parents should weigh the personalit­ies of their kids’ friends as well. For those who are assured that others in the group are mature and responsibl­e, there is no need to continue to clip the proverbial wings of trick-or-treaters. But if parents are leery of any shenanigan­s that may take place, it may be better to wait things out a little longer.

• The neighborho­od: Is the area relatively safe, with limited vehicle traffic? If so, then parents may feel more comfortabl­e letting kids on the younger side of that age spectrum trick-or-treat without them. Urban neighborho­ods or ones where houses are separated by a lot of land may warrant some adult supervisio­n.

• Constant contact: Parents who utilize GPS apps to keep tabs on their children’s whereabout­s may feel more comfortabl­e letting them trick-or treat with friends. These apps will show exactly where the child is at the time and can trace the route kids take. Children having smartphone­s can alleviate parents’ concerns about getting in touch or keeping track of kids left to their own devices.

When to let kids go out trick-or-treating without adults is a decision families need to make based on their unique circumstan­ces and preference­s.

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