A workload only a mom could love
McDonald able to balance soccer, single motherhood
PARIS — Jessica McDonald quickly was put in her place by Jeremiah, her 7-year-old son.
“I tried to explain to him: ‘Buddy, we’re going to the World Cup,’ ” the American forward remembered. “And he’s just like: ‘OK, can I have a toy now?’ ”
A 31-year-old forward, McDonald made her World Cup debut at the start of the second half against Chile on June 16, a pinnacle on a circuitous, protracted path to soccer’s highest level. She sparked the offense and her curling shot hit a post in the 62nd minute.
A big part of the joy for McDonald is that Jeremiah is headed to the World Cup to watch the latter stages. The defending champion Americans play Spain on Monday with a chance to advance to the quarterfinals.
“He doesn’t fully understand, but at least he’s at an age right now where he’s actually going to remember this,” she said. “He’s going to look back and be like, ‘Wow, I was there. Wow, my mom actually is cool — like she said.’ ”
Just a few of the 552 players in the Women’s World Cup are mothers, a group that also includes Argentina goalkeeper Vanina Correa, Jamaica forward Cheyna Matthews, Brazil defender Tamires and South Korea defender Hwang Bo-Ram.
American teammates, stressed to the supreme solely by soccer, are amazed by McDonald’s scheduling skills as a single mom.
“I don’t know how she does it,” midfielder Morgan Brian said. “It’s pretty remarkable when you think about it and know how much we sacrifice and we put into this team and how much effort off the field we have to give, and to know that her time is limited off the field and recovering and doing all the things that she needs to do. It’s pretty impressive that she’s here at this level.”
McDonald was the second overall pick in the 2010 draft of the old Women’s Professional Soccer League. But her career was interrupted when, in her first professional start for Chicago, she tore the patellar tendon in her left knee at Washington on Aug. 19, 2010. She didn’t return to the field until Oct. 27, 2012, with the Melbourne Victory in Australia.
McDonald’s national team debut was delayed until 2016, when she was 28 years old. She has made just eight international appearances, scoring in exhibitions against Portugal last November and Belgium in April.
Jeremiah has traveled the road with his mom. Since his birth, she has played for Melbourne in Australia plus Chicago, Seattle, Portland, Houston, Western New York and North Carolina.
“She’s always talking about how early she has to wake up to make sure Jeremiah is taken care of,” left back Crystal Dunn said. “I wake 10 minutes before training and I’m annoyed training gets pushed up earlier and earlier sometimes. But her ability to balance life is just incredible and I think, hopefully, going forward more women choose her route and not feel like they have to choose their career over having a family. I think the new generation is going to feel like they have the option of doing both.”