Hubby to wife: Show more skin

DEAR ABBY >> My husband wants me to wear more revealing clothing. I’ve always enjoyed dressing attractively, and have never felt behind the times or like a frump, but I do have my opinion about what is appropriate. For example, if I’m wearing leggings, I wear a long top to cover my bum. My outfits are attractive and not ultra-conservative by any means, but I’m not a crop top, low-cut, skin-tight kind of gal.

I want to be attractive to my husband, but I am growing really annoyed by his pestering me to wear things in public that make me feel like I’m oversharing. He says he’s a guy and he would know if it’s inappropriate. I conceded a few times, but it just felt showy and uncomfortable. Your thoughts? — Stingy With the Goods in Maine

DEAR STINGY >> My thought is: Do nothing that makes you feel self-conscious. Your husband may be a “guy” and think he knows what is appropriate attire, but the “bottom” line is that YOU must be comfortable and not feel embarrassed by what you are showing when you are out in public.

DEAR ABBY >> My wife has immersed herself in politics to the extreme. She believes the other side is wrong no matter what. We are in the same political party, but I don’t paint as broad a brush as she does on various issues. I try to change the subject if politics arises. I try to keep an open mind until I get all the facts, whereas she listens to nothing that could be positive about the other side. You guessed it — our discussions always turn into fights and anger with each other. Any suggestions? — Tired of Talking Politics

DEAR TIRED >> In the interest of saving your marriage, because talking about politics causes fights and lingering anger, agree to defer listening to news broadcasts together and engaging in those conversations until after the next election.