How to help
• Suggest movies your friend can watch at home or bring over a movie to
watch together
• Bring over a treat (favorite candy or coffee drink or anything else your
friend can tolerate)
• Treat your friend the same. Keep telling your friend about your life and
joke around with them.
• Don’t withdraw even when this is hard for you. Your friend needs you to
be responsive.
• Don’t ever compare your friend’s situation with someone else who
has cancer.
• Recognize that sometimes your friend can’t respond to you the way you
might like
• Research information about a service or program if your friend asks
• Pick up a prescription or run other errands
• Walk the dog or care for your friend’s pet
• Send funny cards, texts or notes to your friend.
These nonprofits match trained mentors with people who have been diagnosed with cancer:
Firefly Sisterhood:
to foster one-on-one connections with women who have been diagnosed with breast cancer and inspirational survivors. Visit fireflysisterhood.org or call 612-412-7713.
Friend for Life:
a network of trained cancer survivors and caregivers who provide one-on-one emotional and psychosocial support to people recently diagnosed with cancer and their loved ones. Visit friend4life.org or call 1-800-374-3634.
4th Angel Mentoring Program:
a peer-mentoring service provided by the Cleveland Clinic Foundation Taussig Cancer Institute that matches patients or caregivers with trained volunteer mentors who have undergone similar situations. Visit 4thangel.ccf.org or call 1-866-520-3197.
Imerman Angels:
provides free personalized one-on-one cancer support for cancer fighters, survivors and caregivers. Visit imermanangels.org or call 1-866-463-7626.