STRESS AWARENESS MONTH THE DAILY GRIND
Combating stress can be as easy as ‘rewiring’ your brain. Some tips to help you cope.
The key to staving off stress — whether you’ve had a computer meltdown at work or a life-altering panic at home — is to change your brain pathways, and that can be as simple as recognizing that April is Stress Awareness Month.
It’s a matter of near-constant awareness — boosting your ability to recognize your own feelings and thought processes, then slowing down those processes so you can make different choices, experts say.
It doesn’t require extra time — only a good night’s sleep.
“Research shows our brains are rewiring themselves every night as we go to sleep,” said Dr. David H. Baron, the medical director of YellowBrick, an Evanston-based mental-health services provider that’s published a blog reviewing apps aimed at helping people control stress. (The blog post is at
“At night, the brain decides, ‘What’s important? I’ll reinforce that.’ The brain is making decisions about what’s going to stick — and pruning and re-wiring neurons all the while,” Baron said.
Practice makes perfect.
The more we cope with stress in healthy ways — exercising, eating a healthy diet, staying in contact with friends and allies — the stronger those brain connections become, said Fabiana Souza Araujo, Ph.D., an assistant professor in the University of Chicago’s Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Neurosciences.
It’s about increasing your resilience. “We all will fall. It’s part of life. What makes the difference? How fast and how well you bounce back,” Araujo said.
One way to rewire your brain in a healthy direction is to use social media wisely.
Ask yourself: Does social media stress you out?
If so, it could be because social media can create personal and family pressures that are grounded in unreality, said Dr. Olu Ajilore, an associate professor in the University of Illinois at Chicago’s psychiatry department.
“Social media can give us a filtered version of reality that shows others doing well and having fun, [and that can] create competition to keep up with that image,” said Ajilore, who works with patients at UIC’s Center for Depression and Resilience.
So it’s important to do a reality check. How are you letting social media influence your emotions? Do others’ beachfront vacation photos make you angry and jealous or happy and contented?
One coping method: Go on a social-media “fast,” Ajilore said. “Take a break for a couple weeks from Twitter or Instagram. Use that time to reconnect with people in real life, face-to-face.”
Or turn off the messaging function from your phone so that you see messages or
notifications only on a desktop or laptop. Another overlooked step is to ask for help. “It doesn’t make the situation worse to speak honestly about how you’re feeling,” Baron said.
That might mean sitting down with your family and comparing lists of each person’s responsibilities, said Felicia Houston, a licensed clinical professional counselor with UChicago Medicine at Ingalls Memorial in Harvey, who leads stress-reduction workshops.
“Be honest and say, ‘I need some help. Which [responsibilities] can you take off of my plate?’” Houston said.
NOTE:
A free workshop, “Stress Less, Enjoy More,” will take place at 6 p.m. April 17 at the South Holland Community Center, 501 E. 170th St., South Holland. To register, call 708-915-CARE (2273). For more information, call Behavioral Health Services of UChicago Medicine at Ingalls Memorial in Harvey at (708) 915-6411.