Buddy system: Enter the friend zone at work with these 10 tips
Not sure how to make new friends on the job? Here are some tips:
1. Be approachable: Smile, maintain good eye contact and show interest in what others are saying. You’ll appear friendly and approachable.
2. Show genuine interest: Ask your coworkers about their weekend, interests or family. Showing interest in others can build stronger connections.
3. Be an active listener: When coworkers talk, listen. This shows respect — it’s a way to show you value their thoughts and opinions.
4. Find common interests: Whether it’s a hobby, contempt for a politician, surgery stories, cheesy movies, bingeworthy TV shows or favorite books, finding common ground can help strengthen your relationships. Plus, it gives you plenty to talk about.
5. Lunch and break time: Utilize lunch breaks or coffee breaks as opportunities to socialize. It’s a chance to chat about non-work topics and get to know each other better.
6. Celebrate others: Acknowledge your coworkers’ achievements and milestones. This could be a work accomplishment, a birthday or a personal milestone.
7. Offer help: If you see someone struggling with a task that you’re good at, offer your assistance. This can build a strong rapport and mutual respect.
8. Maintain professionalism: While you want to be friendly and approachable, it’s also important to maintain a level of professionalism. Avoid gossiping, don’t be a jerk and be respectful of others’ boundaries.
9. Respect diversity: Everyone has different backgrounds, cultures and experiences. Show your coworkers respect by being open-minded and displaying interest in their perspectives.
10. Join or start a work group or club: This could be a softball team, book club or a foodie group. Participating in extracurricular activities can help you bond over shared interests.