Mark Harmon & Pam Dawber

Respect, love and unity make the marriage of Mark and Pam, both 70, work. “I’m proud to be married, and I’m proud of who I’m married to,” says the NCIS actor. “We stay home. A lot.” Home has always been where Pam’s heart is, too. “I had children, and it’s like, ‘I’m not going to chase this fame thing,’” says Pam, who raised

sons Sean, 33, and Ty, 29, with Mark.