HOW TO BE A “SUPERGUEST”

So we’ve explained how to be a great host. But how does one achieve greatness from the guest perspective? Here’s how:

Pack light. Leave room to bring boat parts, the newest issue of Cruising World, and treats. Leave your troubles at home. Show up excited, curious and grateful. Sail in the now. Learn how the boat works. And help keep it in one piece. Don’t waste water or clog the head. Be a considerate shipmate. Go to bed when you see your hosts yawning. Take up a small space, and help keep a tidy ship. Share your preferences. Be specific when asked about what you want to drink, eat and do. “I’m easy” or “I’m good with whatever” doesn’t work. Find a small boat job. Learn the ship’s method to do dishes or swab decks, or be the trip photographer. Know that the crew usually does not need help. Keep your eyes sharp. If you see, hear or sense something amiss, let the captain know. Express gratitude. Offer cash, meals ashore, or a reciprocal experience in your favorite vacation spot. Write in the ship’s guest book about what you loved most. —DK