Looking to feel less lonely? Join the club
Last week, we discussed the meaning of loneliness, a national epidemic as stated in the 2023 report by the U.S. surgeon general. What can we do about it? Let's look at the issue from three perspectives: the individual, the resources and the community. listener they can talk to about what is happening in their lives while gaining listening, interviewing, writing and public speaking skills. For a schedule and upcoming programs, see sagesandseekers.org (click “programs”).
• Eldera is a global virtual village where generations come together to connect, learn from each other, have fun and create a better future. Young people 15 to 18 are connected with vetted mentors 60 or older for weekly virtual conversations and activities. The No. 1 benefit reported by mentors and youths is joy. Everyone feels valued, supported and inspired. People around the world participate.
• CoGenerate is a nonprofit organization that serves as a catalyst to change our nation from being generations apart to generations together. It envisions a world where older and younger people join forces to solve problems, bridge generational divides and enhance mutual relationships. CoGenerate aims to help leaders, innovators, organizations and funders to scale their work and sustain it. Note the CEO position is shared by members of two generations. Communities
The Village is a good example. It is a grassroots membership organization that aims to create a sense of community for older adults to enhance their opportunities to live independently and stay connected to their communities. Members often provide services such as transportation and technology assistance. Activities might include book groups, lecture series, debates, hiking, current events discussions and dinearounds. Each Village reflects the needs, opportunities and culture of its geographic area. Engagement with the Village community can reduce isolation, increase independence and enhance purpose in life. We have three in our area: South Bay Village (sbvill. org), Westside Pacific Villages (thewpv.org) and the Palos Verdes Peninsula Village (peninsulavillage.net). Look for a Village in your area at vtvnetwork.org.
Finally, each one of us is a resource. If we know someone who lives alone and possibly is lonely, we can reach out with a friendly telephone call or invite that person to join us. Everyone wants to matter. Each one of us can make a difference in someone else's lives. Spread the gift of kindness. It's never been a better time.
Helen Dennis is a nationally recognized leader on issues of aging and the new retirement, with academic, corporate and nonprofit experience. Contact Helen with your questions and comments at Helendenn@ gmail.com. Visit Helen at HelenMdennis.com and follow her on facebook.com/ SuccessfulAgingCommunity.