Isolation effects compounded in elders
Most of us are struggling in the Pandemic forced isolation, either living alone, or in close proximity to family with whom we never has spent so much time in constant close togetherness. (In my neighborhood, there are dogs who have had so many more walks than they ever had before!). Most, if not all of us, miss our former daily connections, even if brief. However, this social isolation is even more difficult for seniors who were accustomed to meeting up with peers at senior centers and other venues. In New York, per The New York Times, 30,000 seniors a day met at gathering centers away from their homes. A study by the AARP compared the prolonged effects of isolation to those of smoking 15 cigarettes a day.
Awareness of the devastating effects of isolation on seniors can prompt us to assist friends, family and neighbors when we are able. Providing some type of connection, even a telephone call to someone, can make a difference. Approximately one-third of adults age 65 and older, per surveys, have not used the internet and may not have internet at home. They may not have smart phones, desktop computers, or tablets. If someone can obtain the hardware, this opens possibilities for more connections such as seeing people on their devices, attending classes via Zoom, using YouTube, and much more. This might need significant contact via telephone to help set up the appropriate programs for them.
However, be cautious since older people, especially lonely people, are more vulnerable to scams.
Telephone calls are still a good start and a schedule can be set up to make sure it doesn’t fall through the cracks. Seniors do not tend to ask for help, so make the first steps.
If you will already assisting family members with their finances, this can and should continue even if it is not possible to physically visit due to distance and for their health protection. You could pay bills online with your family member’s assistance, and can possibly be included in telehealth appointments with their allowance of permission with the medical personnel.
Finally, family members with seniors in facilities are being prevented from visiting. However, these seniors still need the connection. Family and the facilities are finding creative ways to connect. Contact the facility and discuss ways that they may have found or can recommend for the all-important regular connection.
We need to be all in this together. If you have any specific questions or concerns, fell free to contact the elder law team at OWM Law at 610-323-2800 or kmartin@owmlaw. com or rhobbs@owmlaw.com. We are there for you too.
The legal advice in this column is general in nature, Consult your attorney for advice to fit your particular situation.