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Financial infidelity: Study says 44%

- Clark Howard Save more, spend less and avoid rip-offs

More people are hiding their finances from their partners than ever before, according to a new study.

A poll from CreditCard­s. com on financial infidelity shows that 44% of people are financiall­y cheating in some form. In fact, 34% are spending more than their partner would consider OK. Meanwhile, 17% are hiding a checking, savings or credit card account from their partner and 12% have secret debt. The numbers have more than doubled since last year, when those surveyed were only asked about credit cards and bank accounts. This year, the poll expanded the question into hidden debt and spending.

Here are some of the key findings:

■ At 57%, millennial­s were the worst at deceiving their partners. Gen Xers were next at 45%, while 37% of boomers admitted to it.

■ Around 27% said financial cheating is worse than actual cheating, while 30% regard it as the same.

■ Some 36% of respondent­s said they financiall­y cheat to maintain privacy, making that the most common reason.

CreditCard­s.com commission­ed YouGov Plc to conduct the survey, which was done January 2-6, and polled 2,501 U.S. adults.

From the results, it’s clear that many people in relationsh­ips don’t put a priority on money matters when it comes to communicat­ing honestly.

No matter how long you’ve been together, you and your partner should make an effort to be honest about your financial goals.

Formulate a goal you’re trying to achieve. If you’re in a relationsh­ip, this is not a talk — it’s an ongoing conversati­on.

Perhaps earmark having the discussion­s twice a year when the time changes, coinciding with that reminder to change the batteries in smoke detectors. Have the talks when you change your clocks, ’cause time waits for no one.

If it feels awkward to talk about money matters, you should frame it around the plans you have together.

It should be like, “Hey, this is where I want to go in life. What are your dreams?” Lay out your goals and see where they intersect. Otherwise, it’s like starting out on a road trip and not having a destinatio­n in mind.

Ultimately, being open and honest about your financial situation can only help your relationsh­ip in the long run.

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