THE FACES OF BATTLE
My battle with COVID-19: 8 weeks and counting in an awful fight
All of a sudden, I felt nauseous.
I was driving away from an assignment on the afternoon of Oct. 7, and I had to pull over to the side of the road. It happened so suddenly — I was on my way to another assignment, thinking there were no problems. Then, I felt awful.
I went for a coronavirus test that afternoon. My symptoms were so different from most that doctors said they were sure I didn’t have it, until the test came back positive a few days later.
That started a battle with the illness that has kept me from working and nearly all other activities for nearly eight weeks, and my message to everyone is this: The coronavirus is serious, and please protect each other by wearing a mask, practicing social distancing, washing your hands and taking all other precautions experts recommend.
I’ve been a working journalist for decades, concentrating on Hamilton for the Journal-News for the past few years of that career. I’ve mostly told other people’s stories. This time, I wanted to share mine.
If you wear masks and practice physical distancing, you can save people like me, and that’s a cause close to my heart, obviously.
COVID-19 hit me hard. There was delirium at night. There was the agony of days and nights — I believe a week’s worth — of not being able to eat or drink anything without getting sick.
After one visit to the emergency room — we learned a day later my COVID-19 test was positive — my wife, Debbie, drove me home and I was again getting sick for several days before I again left for the emergency room. There were more tests, like the first time, and an IV.
There were still more days of nausea. I only craved the coldest ice water I could get, which soothed me. Eventually, I could eat again, but sleep didn’t happen much.
My body felt like it was being split in half vertically, with my lungs and stomach suffering the worst of it.
Eventually, thanks to some drugs, especially an anti-nausea medicine that made it comfortable for me to eat again, I could have food and drink water without vomiting. I was on numerous drugs, including steroids, tiny shots to my stomach so I didn’t develop blood clots, and another medication I was told could prevent ulcers from the other drugs I was being given.
I’m grateful to my caregivers, some of whom came in wearing full, self-contained protective suits that gave them a fabric halo of oxygen around their heads. Most of my caregivers did not wear anything like that, and I consider them all to be brave.
Many people are dying. Just look at one day’s worth of deaths across our country and imagine if that many died in one day in Vietnam or some other war. We would have been in national mourning and disbelief, almost.
After I began to eat comfortably, I became aware that doctors and nurses were concerned about my lungs and breathing, even though the breathing didn’t seem bad to me as I was restricted to bed.
For about a week, maybe a bit less, they had me on oxygen and watched my oxygen levels hour by hour. The levels gradually dropped.
It increasingly looked like I was going to be put on a ventilator. For that, they knock you out, and a ventilator controls your lungs so they can rest and recover for a few days before you are removed from the machine.
I pushed the doctors hard for a percentage survival rate on a ventilator. I was given a rate for my age of 70-80% survival. For someone older than me, 57, that rate would be lower. The dangerous part comes when the person is removed from the ventilator and their lungs have to try to re-start.
I found peace after a woman gave me a pink, lung-shaped pillow. She asked me to put that pillow under my lungs and lay on my stomach, with my head on a regular pillow.
I never had to go on a ventilator, but was hours away from it. The night of Oct. 22, after I turned on my stomach, the doctors were delighted to see my oxygen levels quickly rise from 84 to 99, simply by doing that.
I have been recovering at home, still spending a lot of time on my stomach and trying to wean myself off of the oxygen assistance. I hope to return to normal activities soon.
Debbie and I have three young-adult kids — Gil, 25; Ravenna, 23; and Lindy, 19 — who are amazing to us and who we believe will change the world. I want to watch them all grow and do things like marry (Gil got engaged to his college girlfriend of six years on Nov. 1). Ravenna hopes to join the Peace Corps in Madagascar, where she most was needed, in July (it was supposed to have been this September, but the pandemic delayed that). Lindy is to graduate from Ohio University in three years.
I want to be on Earth to see those things. I also want to be here with Debbie enjoying life and watching these young adults as they grow older.
I believe a lot of people don’t want to wear masks because they haven’t personally seen someone suffering or dying. I offer myself as an example of someone, although I thank God I didn’t die.
We need to work together. If we can get this invisible creature and pin it to the ground — I imagine doing so with pitchforks — until a vaccine is found and this creature is essentially killed, we all will have destroyed one of America’s worst-ever invisible enemies.
Many lives like mine can be saved.