THE RIGHT TOUCH
Sally was not a therapeutic instructor, but she sometimes helped riders with disabilities. Once she worked with a man who had a type of cerebral palsy that caused him to make constant involuntary movements. He studied riding and tai chi, and he was able to participate in many activities despite his constant movement.
Sally watched him ride, and then talked with him about the center, and how his center could become a place of calm; she used the image of leaves floating on still water. She placed her hands over his center and as they both breathed, he became quiet and still, first in his center, then up and down through his body, until he was sitting quietly on the horse with no involuntary movements. He walked the horse off, and rode around the ring, looking like a soft, quiet rider with no disability for those moments. Afterward, to use centering to help cope
shock), and the girl sat up, shook her
head, got on and had the best ride of
her life! This doesn’t happen often, but I
was glad Sally was there---I might never
have dared to do bodywork again!
Sally’s work has many applications
beyond riding. In 1997, she attended the
American Riding Instructor Association
National Conference, where she was
honored as a Master Instructor. Many
of the instructor candidates were ner-
vous: They were scheduled to take a
battery of certification tests the next
day. Sally offered to work with them ear-
ly in the morning; she got them breath-
ing, using soft eyes, grounded and
centered, and taught them the “bubble”
---she had each person visualize being
engulfed in a clear, protective bubble,
in which they kept only positive things
like confidence, calm, being organized
and remembering what they had
learned. Anything negative would
bounce off the surface of the bubble.
Then she had them move in a group,
walking, running, even skipping---and
nobody collided; every movement was
smooth and coordinated. All 60 instruc-
tors floated out of the room with smiles
on their faces, ready to face the testing
with confidence.
Sally was a lifelong learner and
always remained young in her think-
ing. She was positive, accepting and
down-to-earth. When she walked into a
room, everyone was drawn to her. She
was humble, despite her fame, and con-
nected easily with people of all ages
and interests.
She once told me that in her youth,
Capt. Federico Caprilli and his method
of teaching jumping was a hot topic---
everyone discussed the forward seat
and was for it or against it. Nowadays,
she said, few people even know
Caprilli’s name, but anyone who
jumps uses his method. It was not her