First For Women

Unlock the power of your dreams

Bestsellin­g author and renowned dream expert Kelly Sullivan Walden decodes the dreams of four FIRST readers.

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“I’m a helpful mermaid!”

DREAM: “I’m in the midst of a war of some kind and I dive into the ocean, where I’m transforme­d into a mermaid! I swim to where the bombs were going off to help heal people.” —Skylar Maurer, Tupelo, MS WHAT IT’S TELLING YOU: “I believe your subconscio­us is hinting that you’re a natural caretaker, as water symbolizes sensitivit­y and empathy. As a mermaid capable of swimming far and deep, you can help soothe people around the world. Though the challenges represente­d by war are extreme, no matter who or what you may be battling in waking life, your own healing will begin once you take a deep dive into what you truly want from life by exploring your aspiration­s and showing yourself the same compassion you show others.”

“A lotus is blooming!”

DREAM: “I was standing on a bridge and suddenly I decided to throw my old clothes into the water below. As soon as I did, a huge lotus flower began blooming from the water. Can you tell me what this means?” —Michelle Gary, Warwick, RI

WHAT IT’S TELLING YOU: “The lotus flower is the ultimate symbol of transforma­tion: Since its beautiful, bountiful blossoms emerge from even the darkest water, it represents the hope and wisdom that spring from overcoming a difficult challenge. And because our clothes represent the roles we play and the facade we show the world, throwing them off a bridge implies that you’re shedding your attachment­s to an old identity you’ve outgrown. Indeed, I believe your dream is reflecting a time of great reward and continued growth as you blossom into an even more magnificen­t version of yourself.”

“I made a discovery!”

DREAM: “I was a scientist, giving a speech about a more efficient type of fuel I’d invented—it felt so real, like this discovery would revolution­ize the world! I just wish I could remember the formula!”

—Lydia Herrera, Saginaw, MI

WHAT IT’S TELLING YOU: “When we dream of inventing something, we’re tapping into the part of our mind that has the answers to our every question. Take heart knowing that you’re in excellent company: Some of the most creative thinkers, from Leonardo da Vinci to Albert Einstein, drew inspiratio­n from their dreams to contribute to science and art. Even if you can’t recall the details of your dream, it’s likely telling you the answer regarding a long-held goal is at your fingertips. I encourage you to journal about or meditate on a problem you’re striving to solve to help spark your ‘inner scientist.’ The next dream you have will send you a clearer picture about how to bring your insights into the waking world.”

“My husband betrays me!”

DREAM: “I was driving through an unfamiliar neighborho­od when I noticed a woman embracing my husband—they got into a red sports car and drove away! I wake up in tears. Is this dream telling me what I think it is?” —Angie Kessee, Kansas City, MO

WHAT IT’S TELLING YOU: “I can imagine how upsetting this must have been, but please know that dreams are often just symbolic—only you can truly know if it’s pointing to a real-life scenario, or if it’s simply trying to help you work out other insecuriti­es. For example, since everyone in your dreams represents an aspect of yourself, seeing your partner cheating could be a message that you’re ‘cheating’ yourself out of an opportunit­y. In other words, pay attention to promises you’ve made to yourself and remain faithful to doing what it takes to honor your needs by ‘driving’ toward new, exciting adventures.”

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