Letting go of lesbian

When I came out almost five years ago, I thought that would be the end of my confusion about my sexuality. I believed everything was cut and dry: either you were gay, lesbian, straight or bisexual. I figured all I had to do was pick one and live happily ever after. I’ve realized that it isn’t so simple. Within those five years, the LGBTQ community and how we identify ourselves has changed immensely. That acronym is a miniscule sample of our diversity. It isn’t a measure of being attracted to men, women or both because the way we look at gender is constantly evolving and everyone is pret-