Once Upon a Time in Mecca - The ’90s

Here’s the second installment of “Greatest Hits” from the Gay ’90s of landmarks in our LGBTQ long march to freedom here.

The greatest advance in the ’90s is the arrival of protease inhibitors in 1996, making AIDS a chronic condition and not a death sentence.

For me, AIDS hit in 1991, when I knew about 25 men who died that year. After working out at the Colony Square gym, I sat in the atrium often crying uncontrollably, fearing I would lose my mind, although I am HIV negative.

Finally one day I heard a voice, “Dave, you’ve lost your mind, don’t worry about it anymore. There’s no way you can stay sane through this. Just do what you have to do for those you care for.” Thus I took the focus off myself and onto those who needed help.

Drag queens were on our front lines, headlining the bread and butter fundraisers we needed amidst stingy government assistance. Count Diamond Lil, Bubba D Licious, Charlie Brown, and Greg Troia’s Armorettes as our heroic troupers.

Ironically the greater visibility AIDS gave us created a renaissance in the arts. Actors Express exploded here founded by two gay men Chris Coleman and Harold Leaver and set a new bar both for theatre excellence and no holds barred depictions of gays and lesbians (earning the nickname “Actors Undressed” for serious eye candy).

The pinnacle of the Express saw the debut of the musical “The Harvey Milk Show” in 1991 by Atlantans Dan Pruitt and Patrick Hutchison, which later became the showpiece of the Cultural Olympiad during the 1996 Olympic Games here.

The Olympics coincided with a vast and welcoming LGBTQ center at Center Stage Theatre on West Peachtree, overseen by Julie Rhoad, who now runs the Names Project

From left: A reunion of Greg James, Elizabeth Monahan, and Dave Hayward at the 1996 Olympic Games in Atlanta. James and Monahan and her wife, Eva Salzer helped create the First National March on Washington for LGBTQ Rights in 1979, as well as myriad other accomplishments. James now lives in San Francisco, and Monahan and her wife now live in Connecticut.

AIDS Memorial Quilt headquartered here.

At Seven Stages Theatre, playwright Jim Grimsley stoked the burgeoning scene, world premiering his surreal meditations on gay life “Mr. Universe” and “Math and After Math”, along with an adaptation of his novel “Dream Boy.”

Part-time Atlantan Elton John and the homegrown the Indigo Girls perform what seems an impromptu jam in Piedmont Park for our first AIDS walk in 1991.

In 1993 the beleaguered Theatre in the Square in Marietta becomes the flashpoint for rightwing nuts when TITS stages gay playwright Terrence McNally’s “Lips Together Teeth Apart”, which only mentions gays in passing. Still, the Cobb County Commission passes a resolution informing gays and lesbians they’re “incompatible with the values of Cobb County” (counties have values?!) and cuts off funding for the arts to boot.

Well, Native Atlantan Pat Hussain and her partner in crime Jon Ivan Weaver seriously object and assert that if that’s how they feel,