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Dispelling a few common fashion myths

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No matter how self-aware, self-expressed or selfconfid­ent we are, there are still some sticky, pernicious thoughts and feelings that can come up when we start thinking about style.

A lot of these “style myths” rear their ugly heads when we make a big change or try something new, and can originate from our histories, family and friends or even the media. Most people truly want to prioritize their personal style, but their deep-seated, sometimes subconscio­us beliefs can hinder the fashion evolution process.

I’m here to help you identify and eliminate three of the most common style myths. the label. Great style comes from thoughtful decision-making (about good fit and balance), not from expensive price tags.

If you value your style and desire to find clothes that flatter your body (no matter your shape or size), you can learn how to dress yourself in a way that gives you joy.

Have you ever fallen in love with a piece of clothing but resisted purchasing or wearing it because you think it’s too frivolous? Have you justified your inattentio­n to your personal style by insisting that people should really focus on the words you say instead of what you wear?

The truth is when you deny yourself style, you are denying your own well-being in a way that can take away from what people think of you. To prioritize style is to prioritize self-care (investing in yourself ), confidence (when you look good, you feel good) and creative expression. These aren’t superficia­l things.

When your style is aligned with who you really are, people can hear your words more clearly because your look supports your real persona (instead of underminin­g it).

Do you avoid shopping because you don’t have the time to find what fits you? Is style completely overwhelmi­ng? Yes, creating a new wardrobe from the ground up is a daunting task, but you don’t have to be a full-time trend-chaser to upgrade your personal aesthetic.

Doing a little work to discover your personal style up front can create a framework for what to wear that will last you a long time. I also believe in creating a wardrobe based on classic, versatile basics, punctuated with more current, affordable finds. This way, you have a solid wardrobe that benefits from shorter, more fun shopping trips whenever you have a chance.

The next time you think it’s time to reevaluate your outfits, shake off any old insecuriti­es and go for it. If you take a step back and reframe your thinking, you’ll have the energy to punch up your closet and dress for your best life.

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