Before the TV hit ‘God Friended Me,’ there were two friends fascinated with faith
When the creators of CBS’s new, surprise hit TV show “God Friended Me” set out to create a series with religious ideas at its center, they wanted to bring something innovative to the genre: Doubt.
It’s a theme that the handful of earlier successful faith-based shows hadn’t tried. “‘Highway to Heaven’ is a touchstone for many of us who grew up in that generation,” Bryan Wynbrandt, the co-executive producer of “God Friended Me,” told Religion News Service late last month. “But as storytellers, as adults, it just didn’t interest us to tell a story that says there is 100 percent [for certain] a God.”
“There’s no ambiguity,” added the show’s other co-executive producer, Steven Lilien, Wynbrandt’s longtime friend and creative collaborator.
“God Friended Me” follows the adventures of the atheist son of an Episcopal priest who’s dispatched to intervene in the lives of New York City strangers by a mysterious Facebook user named “God.” It was inspired by the two showrunners’ real-life friendship of nearly 20 years.
Lilien, 40, and Wynbrandt, 41, have been friends since shortly after both arrived in Los Angeles fresh out of college to launch careers in the entertainment industry.
Both were reared in Jewish families, but as adults the trajectories of their spiritual journeys diverged.
Lilien remains a believer, connected to his Jewish faith, while Wynbrandt, who married his college sweetheart — a cradle Catholic — has arrived at an agnostic or atheist place.
“I never really felt a connection, but I went through the paces,” said Wynbrandt of his traditional Jewish upbringing in Ohio, complete with a bar mitzvah. But as he learned more about his wife’s Catholicism and she learned more about Judaism, he began to question the idea that any one religion had a corner on truth.
“When you fall in love with someone who’s outside of that, love trumps that, and you also start seeing both sides and realizing that, for me, they’re the same,” he said.
“Maybe we’re all just here and there isn’t some divine creator and our experiences in life and with each other — that’s the true north of humanity and our existence,” said Wynbrandt.
When Lilien was 20 years old, his father died unexpectedly — a trauma that drove him to embrace his faith even more deeply.
“It’s one of those defining moments,” Lilien said. “You can see how the death of a loved one could send someone in two different directions, either toward or away from faith. For me, it brought me closer.”
Not coincidentally, perhaps, the lead character of “God Friended Me,” Miles Finer (Brandon Micheal Hall), loses his faith after he loses his mother to cancer. That loss — of life and faith — fuels the conflict between Miles and his Episcopal priest father, the Rev. Arthur Finer, played with great warmth and pathos by veteran actor Joe Morton.
Lilien and Wynbrandt said they chose the Episcopal Church as the institutional religious setting for the show because of its “openness” on pressing social issues such as LGBTQ — on the show, the priest’s daughter, Ali ( Javicia Leslie), is a lesbian — and friendly interactions with other religions.
The show’s regular cast includes Jewish and Hindu characters, and the first slate of episodes included storylines involving Muslims and Buddhists, karmic destiny, interfaith marriages, omniscience and artificial intelligence.
A recurring theme in their friendship (and on the show) is whether socalled coincidences are simply that — coincidences — or perhaps evidence of Providence or some other kind of divine hand at work in the world.
What’s certain is that the show’s complicated, nuanced and sometimes messy exploration of religion and the nature of faith has found an audience — and it is robust. CBS recently ordered a full season of the show, which has drawn an impressive average of 8.5 million viewers for each of its first six episodes.
“The show really is about facing each other and humanity and connections,” Lilien said.
Will the audience eventually learn whether the source behind the Facebook “God” account is human or divine or something in between?
“You don’t know if it’s God or an A.I. [artificial intelligence] computing the outcome of events, or maybe God is an A.I. machine,” Wynbrandt said. “That question is a metaphor for the question for all of us: Is there really a God or is there not? Is there really someone behind the God account or is it, as you say, divine? Keep watching and we definitely start to peel back the layers of that.”
“We always say, present a great argument, but we need to hear the other side of it as well,” said Lilien. “And that’s sort of our relationship.”