Rebuilt Suns on a roll, climbing in Western Conference
PHOENIX (AP) — The bubble was encouraging for them and so was the offseason. But the real proof that the Phoenix Suns might be ready to end their 10-year playoff drought obviously wouldn’t come until all the new players were actually on the floor.
So far, so good.
The Suns — built around the All- Star backcourt of Chris Paul and Devin Booker — have won six of the past seven games to push their record to 14-9 about one-third through the slightly shortened 72game NBA season. That’s good for fourth place in the Western Conference behind the Jazz, Lakers and Clippers.
Booker’s goal is to show the Suns are just beginning to show what they can do. They’ve got another big opportunity Wednesday when they host Giannis Antetokounmpo and the Milwaukee Bucks, who are 16-8 and second in the Eastern Conference.
“We’re at a crucial part of the season where we have to lock in more than ever,” Booker said. “We need to do our work early instead of trying to make up games toward the end of the year.”
Phoenix made one of the biggest moves of the offseason when it acquired Paul in a trade with the Oklahoma City Thunder. Second-year GM James Jones didn’t stop there, adding veteran free agents like forward Jae Crowder and guards Langston Galloway and E’Twaun Moore.
They’ve meshed with the team’s holdovers like Booker, a 6-foot-5 guard who made his first All-Star team last season.
The Suns had one of their most satisfying wins this season on Monday night, using a fourth-quarter rally to edge the Cleveland Cavaliers 119-113 in a hard-fought game. Phoenix didn’t have five of its regular rotation players because of injuries, including Paul, who was resting a sore hamstring.
But others stepped up. Booker scored a season-high 36 points while handling some of Paul’s point guard duties. Moore played a season-high 40 minutes and contributed 17 points. Mikal Bridges scored 22 points. Cam Johnson hit two huge 3- pointers in the fourth after missing his first six shots from beyond the arc. Deandre Ayton had 15 points and 16 rebounds.
For Booker — who has slogged through five straight losing seasons with the Suns — it’s a beautiful sight. Now the franchise has legit playoff aspirations for the first time since guys like Amar’e Stoudemire, Steve Nash and Grant Hill were running up and down the floor in 2010.
DEAR ABBY: I enjoy babysitting for the children of family and friends. But while I have nothing to hide, I hate how everyone seems to have inside cameras. I feel like I’m in a fishbowl, like if I let their kids veg in front of the TV or the computer, I’ll be judged as lazy. I also hate having my picture taken, so the idea of being on a live feed all day is off- putting.
Do I ask them to turn off the cameras, or stop babysitting? I can’t be the only person who is uncomfortable being monitored all day like a caged animal. What’s a good way of handling this? -MONITORED IN OHIO
DEAR MONITORED: People usually have cameras inside their home for security reasons, and so they will have a warning or evidence in case of a break- in.
Parents and pet owners enjoy peace of mind knowing they can periodically check to see how their precious angels are doing. The intent is not to spy on you.
If you feel you are being watched excessively, ask the parents how they think you are doing. Unless they complain about your performance, a good way of handling this would be to simply accept the situation, or restrict your babysitting to homes that are camera- free.
DEAR ABBY: I have had a crush on a man since we were in our teens. We’re now in our mid-40s. Both of us ended long- term relationships about a year ago. We have stayed in contact every now and then, but only as friends -- more like family. He was best friends with my beloved late uncle.
We have decided to meet, with sex at the forefront of our thoughts. How do I prepare myself to go into this with a sex-only mind frame? Do you think this could damage our 30-year friendship? -- NERVOUS IN OREGON
DEAR NERVOUS: It has been my observation that men and women view sexual relationships differently. Women often let their emotions get involved.
Men can more easily separate the two. It could ABSOLUTELY damage your 30-year friendship if what he expects is a casual friends- with- benefits relationship and at some point you decide you need more from this man you have had a crush on since your teens.
DEAR ABBY: My 25-year-old daughter has stopped talking to me. She said I need counseling to discuss the abuse during her childhood. I asked, “What abuse?” She won’t say! I can’t think of any. She was never spanked. She was given anything she asked for and allowed to join any club or sport she was interested in.
The only thing she finally mentioned was that my husband and I had arguments. We didn’t argue often. I’m at a loss. Should I step back and leave her alone? I send texts and call her once a week.
Most go unanswered. When she does answer, she asks if I have started counseling. Please advise. -- CUT OFF IN INDIANA
DEAR CUT OFF: Tell your daughter that you are open to counseling, but only if it is joint counseling with her to figure out why there is such a disparity in your -- and her -- memories of her childhood. If you do, it may -- I can’t guarantee -- resolve what’s happening now.
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